Managing Differences

    Moving to a new country with a whole new culture might seem like an easy and fun idea/adventure at first since the physical part of moving involves a lot of financial stability and willpower, but underneath all that, moving to a completely different country might not be as easy as one thinks it is. There are many challenges and difficulties when it comes to adapting to a new culture and yes there might be some things that are easier than most, but that doesn’t include everything, as each culture has both easy and difficult ways of adjusting to a new lifestyle.

    Like with almost every country, Belgium has some challenges when it comes to their lifestyle, where one might experience a bit of culture shock. Apart from living in a new country it not only entails communicating verbally through language but also nonverbally as well. In Belgium, greeting customs are not essentially required but are highly recommended as a form of respect, as most Belgians will greet with a handshake and/or cheek kisses, and by not reciprocating any greeting gestures is considered rude.

    Another challenging aspect when it comes to living in a new culture is the whole language barrier. As we all know by now, Belgium is a quite diverse and multilingual nation with more than one language spoken throughout the country, so it's safe to say that Belgium’s languages are both fascinating and daunting. When it comes to focusing on a language, specifically in Belgium, it often depends on what region you want to move to, and it would be beneficial to pay attention to which community speaks which language before moving/visiting there. However, there are some Belgians who can speak English, usually in urban areas, which can make communication transitions easier upon visiting or first living there. But, generally speaking, Belgians and other native inhabitants, do appreciate any effort made to speak their native language(s). Additionally, when it comes to communicating with Belgians, assuming everyone speaks English or even another language perhaps like Dutch, German, or French can be offensive to whomever you’re speaking with. So, always ask which language someone prefers speaking in.

    Being in a new culture, most likely everyone will experience culture shock, and it comes through multiple of stages. At first, everything seems all exciting and fun, until the daily life sets in and that might be where you encounter frustration or even confusion with local customs. However, this is a normal part in the adaptation process because over time, as you get adjusted to the new surroundings, it will start to feel like a new home. I believe that being patient and having an open mind are key to overcoming some of these challenges.

     Being connected to a new culture means getting to know the intercultural ethics of that given culture. When it comes to recognizing and respecting cultural differences it’s important to remember that it shows a deep appreciation for each of the culture’s values, beliefs, and behaviors. By understanding those cultural variances that enables the ability to develop a sense of intercultural awareness with a more ethical perspective. In other terms, it means remembering that people are both alike and different at the same time.

    A couple of ways to internalize these components into everyday life and other future exchanges would be to not only educate yourself but also to immerse yourself in another perspective, particularly a different culture than your own. By seeing situations from other’s perspective, you start to realize the lifestyle of not only the individual but of also the whole community.

    Even though majority of us don’t necessarily have the luxury of actively going to another country to experience a new culture, there are other ways to engage in any selected culture while remaining in your home country. One way is to join a cultural organization/event. There are a lot of communities that have different cultural societies which host a lot of specific traditions. For example, there are local festivals, and language meetups. Specifically, the U.S. hosts many intercultural traditions like, for one, St. Patrick’s Day. Moreover, this holiday as we all know originated in Ireland and then migrated to the states. This holiday and any others are just one way that you can get involved and educated about another culture. 

     Another way to experience a new culture without having to move is by exploring different media such as films, music, literature, and podcasts from that given culture. Even though it’s a bit less interactive than other forms, as regarding to being physically close, it still gives an authentic view into different stories, values, and traditions.







References:

https://www.expatexchange.com/ctryguide/21025/4/Belgium/Living-in-Belgium-Culture-Shock-in-Belgium

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